Preparation
1. The Will (Waṣiyyah)
الوصية
Writing a will is emphasised in the Sunnah, especially when one has wealth, debts, or matters that need to be settled.
- Bequests are limited to one-third of the estate at most — and only for non-heirs (since heirs already have fixed shares in the Qur'an).
- All debts must be recorded — debts to people and to Allah (unpaid zakāh, unfulfilled vows, missed Hajj, kaffārāt).
- Have at least two trustworthy Muslim witnesses sign the will.
- Specify washing/burial preferences (e.g. who should wash you, where you wish to be buried).
- Do NOT bequeath anything to legal heirs — this overrides the Qur'anic shares and is not permitted.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿAbdullāh ibn ʿUmar (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
مَا حَقُّ امْرِئٍ مُسْلِمٍ لَهُ شَيْءٌ يُوصِي فِيهِ يَبِيتُ لَيْلَتَيْنِ إِلَّا وَوَصِيَّتُهُ مَكْتُوبَةٌ عِنْدَهُ
"It is not right for any Muslim who has something to bequeath to spend even two nights without having his will written and kept ready with him."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2738, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1627
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ to Saʿd ibn Abī Waqqāṣ (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
الثُّلُثُ، وَالثُّلُثُ كَثِيرٌ، إِنَّكَ أَنْ تَذَرَ وَرَثَتَكَ أَغْنِيَاءَ خَيْرٌ مِنْ أَنْ تَذَرَهُمْ عَالَةً يَتَكَفَّفُونَ النَّاسَ
"One-third, and one-third is a lot. To leave your heirs rich is better than to leave them poor, begging from people."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2742, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1628
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Umāmah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
لَا وَصِيَّةَ لِوَارِثٍ
"There is no bequest for an heir."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2870, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2120
2. Signs of Approaching Death & Talqīn
علامات الموت والتلقين
When death approaches, gently remind the dying person of the shahādah so it may be his last words.
- Talqīn — softly say 'Lā ilāha illa Allāh' near the dying person, without forcing or repeating to the point of irritation.
- If possible, turn him to face the qiblah (right side, body facing Makkah).
- Remain calm; do not weep loudly or speak ill in his presence — the angels say 'āmīn' to whatever is said.
- Recite Sūrah Yā-Sīn near him is reported by some, but the chain is weak — better to focus on talqīn and du'ā'.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
لَقِّنُوا مَوْتَاكُمْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ
"Prompt your dying ones to say 'Lā ilāha illa Allāh.'"
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 916
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Muʿādh ibn Jabal (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
مَنْ كَانَ آخِرُ كَلَامِهِ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ دَخَلَ الْجَنَّةَ
"Whoever's last words are 'Lā ilāha illa Allāh' will enter Paradise."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3116
3. At the Moment of Death
عند الوفاة
- 1Close the eyes of the deceased gently — the eyes follow the soul as it leaves.
- 2Tie the lower jaw shut with a cloth so the mouth does not remain open.
- 3Soften the limbs while still warm so they can be straightened.
- 4Cover the entire body with a clean sheet.
- 5Make du'ā' for the deceased — recommended: 'Allāhumma-ghfir li-fulān, warfaʿ darajatahu fī al-mahdiyyīn, wakhlufhu fī ʿaqibihi fī al-ghābirīn, waghfir lanā wa lahu yā Rabb al-ʿālamīn.'
- 6Hasten the burial preparations.
- 7Pay off the deceased's debts as soon as possible — the soul is suspended by its debt.
- 8Inform family, friends, and the local community.
- Wailing, screaming, slapping cheeks, and tearing clothes are forbidden.
- Quiet tears and grief are permitted — the Prophet ﷺ wept when his son Ibrāhīm died and said: 'The eye sheds tears and the heart grieves, but we say only what pleases our Lord.'
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Umm Salamah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā) — said by the Prophet ﷺ when he closed Abū Salamah's eyes
إِنَّ الرُّوحَ إِذَا قُبِضَ تَبِعَهُ الْبَصَرُ
"When the soul is taken, the sight follows it."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 920
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
أَسْرِعُوا بِالْجَنَازَةِ، فَإِنْ تَكُ صَالِحَةً فَخَيْرٌ تُقَدِّمُونَهَا، وَإِنْ يَكُ سِوَى ذَلِكَ فَشَرٌّ تَضَعُونَهُ عَنْ رِقَابِكُمْ
"Hasten the funeral. If she was righteous, you are advancing her to good; if otherwise, it is an evil you are removing from your necks."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1315, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 944
حديثHadithḤasanNarrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
نَفْسُ الْمُؤْمِنِ مُعَلَّقَةٌ بِدَيْنِهِ حَتَّى يُقْضَى عَنْهُ
"The soul of the believer is suspended by his debt until it is paid off on his behalf."
— Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1078, Sunan Ibn Mājah 2413
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿAbdullāh ibn Masʿūd (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ ضَرَبَ الْخُدُودَ، وَشَقَّ الْجُيُوبَ، وَدَعَا بِدَعْوَى الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ
"He is not from us who slaps his cheeks, tears his clothes, and calls with the calls of the Days of Ignorance."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1294, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 103
Ghusl (Washing)
4. Ghusl of the Deceased — Step by Step
غسل الميت
Washing the deceased is a collective obligation (farḍ kifāyah) on the Muslims.
- 1Place the body on a raised, sloped surface so water drains away.
- 2Cover the ʿawrah (navel to knee for men; modesty over the entire body for women).
- 3Press gently on the abdomen to expel any waste; clean it thoroughly with gloved hands.
- 4Make wuḍū' for the deceased as for prayer — but wipe the inside of the mouth and nose with a damp cloth instead of rinsing.
- 5Wash the head and beard with water mixed with sidr (lote leaves) or a clean soap.
- 6Wash the right side of the body, then the left.
- 7Repeat the entire wash three times. If still not clean, wash up to seven times — always in odd numbers.
- 8In the final wash, add camphor (kāfūr) to the water.
- 9If the hair is long, braid it into three braids and place behind.
- 10Dry the body with a clean cloth.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ to the women washing his daughter Zaynab — narrated by Umm ʿAṭiyyah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā)
اغْسِلْنَهَا ثَلَاثًا، أَوْ خَمْسًا، أَوْ أَكْثَرَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ إِنْ رَأَيْتُنَّ ذَلِكَ، بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ، وَاجْعَلْنَ فِي الْآخِرَةِ كَافُورًا — أَوْ شَيْئًا مِنْ كَافُورٍ — فَإِذَا فَرَغْتُنَّ فَآذِنَّنِي
"Wash her three, five, or more times if you see fit — with water and lote leaves — and put camphor (or some camphor) in the last wash. When you have finished, inform me."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1253, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 939
5. Who Washes Whom
من يغسل من
- Men wash men; women wash women.
- A husband may wash his wife, and a wife may wash her husband — ʿAlī (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) washed Fāṭimah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā), and Asmā' bint ʿUmays washed her husband Abū Bakr (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu).
- Children under approximately seven years old may be washed by either gender.
- If no one of the same gender is available and no spouse, the body is given tayammum (dry ablution) by a person of the opposite gender, with hands wrapped in cloth.
- The person washing should be trustworthy, knowledgeable, and one who will conceal anything seen.
- It is recommended for the closest relative who knows the procedure to wash — but a non-relative who is more knowledgeable is preferred over an ignorant relative.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥ (graded by al-Albānī)Narrated Abū Rāfiʿ (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
مَنْ غَسَّلَ مُسْلِمًا فَكَتَمَ عَلَيْهِ، غَفَرَ اللَّهُ لَهُ أَرْبَعِينَ مَرَّةً
"Whoever washes a Muslim and conceals (what he sees of him), Allah forgives him forty times."
— Al-Mustadrak ʿalā al-Ṣaḥīḥayn 1307, al-Bayhaqī 6705
6. Ghusl — Special Cases
أحكام خاصة في الغسل
- Martyr in battle (shahīd al-maʿrakah): not washed and not prayed over by the funeral prayer — buried in the clothes he died in, with his blood on him.
- Other shuhadā' (drowning, plague, fire, childbirth, defending wealth/family): washed and prayed over normally.
- Miscarriage before 4 lunar months: not washed, not prayed over — wrapped and buried.
- Stillborn after 4 lunar months (when the soul is breathed in): washed, named, shrouded, and prayed over.
- Drowned, burned, decomposed, or severely injured body: if water cannot be safely used, give tayammum. Wash whatever can be washed and wrap the rest.
- Person who dies in iḥrām (Hajj/ʿUmrah): washed with water and sidr only — no camphor, no perfume — shrouded in his iḥrām cloths, head and face uncovered. He will be raised on the Day of Judgement reciting the talbiyah.
- Multiple body parts found: wash and pray over what is found.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ about the martyrs of Uḥud — narrated by Jābir ibn ʿAbdillāh (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
زَمِّلُوهُمْ بِدِمَائِهِمْ، فَإِنَّهُمْ يُبْعَثُونَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ، وَأَوْدَاجُهُمْ تَشْخُبُ دَمًا، اللَّوْنُ لَوْنُ الدَّمِ، وَالرِّيحُ رِيحُ الْمِسْكِ
"Wrap them in their blood, for they will be resurrected on the Day of Judgement with their wounds gushing — the colour of blood, the scent of musk."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1346
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥAbout a man who died in iḥrām — narrated by Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
اغْسِلُوهُ بِمَاءٍ وَسِدْرٍ، وَكَفِّنُوهُ فِي ثَوْبَيْهِ، وَلَا تُحَنِّطُوهُ، وَلَا تُخَمِّرُوا رَأْسَهُ، فَإِنَّهُ يُبْعَثُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مُلَبِّيًا
"Wash him with water and lote leaves, shroud him in his two garments, do not perfume him, and do not cover his head — for he will be raised on the Day of Judgement reciting the talbiyah."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1265, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1206
Kafn (Shrouding)
7. Shrouding (Kafn)
الكفن
The shroud should be from clean white cloth, sufficient to cover the entire body.
- 1Men: three white sheets, large enough to wrap the entire body.
- 2Women: five pieces — an izār (waist-wrap), a khimār (head-cover), a qamīṣ (shirt), and two enveloping sheets.
- 3Lay the sheets on top of one another on a flat surface.
- 4Apply non-alcoholic perfume (such as ʿūd or musk) to the body's joints and the seven points of prostration: forehead, nose, palms, knees, and toes.
- 5Place the body in the centre of the cloths.
- 6Wrap the right side of the top sheet over the body, then the left, and so on for each layer.
- 7Tie the ends with strips of cloth — to be untied at the grave.
- Avoid extravagance — Abū Bakr (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) said: 'A new cloth is more deserving of the living than the dead.'
- A pilgrim in iḥrām is shrouded in his iḥrām cloths and not perfumed.
- The shroud should be paid for from the deceased's estate before debts and inheritance are distributed.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
الْبَسُوا مِنْ ثِيَابِكُمُ الْبَيَاضَ، فَإِنَّهَا مِنْ خَيْرِ ثِيَابِكُمْ، وَكَفِّنُوا فِيهَا مَوْتَاكُمْ
"Wear white clothes — for they are from the best of your clothes — and shroud your dead in them."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3878, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 994
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿĀ'ishah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā)
كُفِّنَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي ثَلَاثَةِ أَثْوَابٍ بِيضٍ سَحُولِيَّةٍ مِنْ كُرْسُفٍ، لَيْسَ فِيهَا قَمِيصٌ وَلَا عِمَامَةٌ
"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was shrouded in three white Sahūlī cotton garments, with no shirt or turban among them."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1264, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 941
Ṣalāt al-Janāzah
8. Ṣalāt al-Janāzah — The Funeral Prayer
صلاة الجنازة
The funeral prayer is a farḍ kifāyah on the community. It consists of four takbīrs while standing — no rukūʿ, no sujūd.
- 1Stand facing the qiblah. The deceased is placed in front: a man's body — the imām stands at the head; a woman's — at the middle.
- 2Make the niyyah (intention) silently in the heart.
- 3First takbīr: raise the hands, then place them on the chest. Recite Sūrah al-Fātiḥah (and a short sūrah is also reported as authentic).
- 4Second takbīr: recite the full ṣalāh ʿalā an-Nabī (durood as in tashahhud).
- 5Third takbīr: make duʿā' for the deceased.
- 6Fourth takbīr: pause briefly, then say the salām to the right (some narrations also report to the left).
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
مَنْ شَهِدَ الْجَنَازَةَ حَتَّى يُصَلَّى عَلَيْهَا فَلَهُ قِيرَاطٌ، وَمَنْ شَهِدَهَا حَتَّى تُدْفَنَ فَلَهُ قِيرَاطَانِ. قِيلَ: وَمَا الْقِيرَاطَانِ؟ قَالَ: مِثْلُ الْجَبَلَيْنِ الْعَظِيمَيْنِ
"Whoever attends a funeral until it is prayed over has one qīrāṭ of reward, and whoever attends until it is buried has two qīrāṭs. It was asked: 'What are the two qīrāṭs?' He said: 'Like two great mountains.'"
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1325, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 945
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Ṭalḥah ibn ʿAbdillāh ibn ʿAwf — about Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
أَنَّهُ كَانَ يَقْرَأُ عَلَى الْجَنَازَةِ بِفَاتِحَةِ الْكِتَابِ. قَالَ: لِيَعْلَمُوا أَنَّهَا سُنَّةٌ
"He used to recite Sūrah al-Fātiḥah in the funeral prayer. He said: 'So they may know that it is a Sunnah.'"
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1335
9. Du'ās in Ṣalāt al-Janāzah
أدعية صلاة الجنازة
The most important part of the funeral prayer is the du'ā' for the deceased after the third takbīr. The Prophet ﷺ taught several wordings — any may be used.
- If the deceased is a woman, change the masculine pronouns (ـه) to feminine (ـها).
- If multiple — use the dual (ـهما) or plural (ـهم).
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) — general du'ā'
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِحَيِّنَا وَمَيِّتِنَا، وَشَاهِدِنَا وَغَائِبِنَا، وَصَغِيرِنَا وَكَبِيرِنَا، وَذَكَرِنَا وَأُنْثَانَا. اللَّهُمَّ مَنْ أَحْيَيْتَهُ مِنَّا فَأَحْيِهِ عَلَى الْإِسْلَامِ، وَمَنْ تَوَفَّيْتَهُ مِنَّا فَتَوَفَّهُ عَلَى الْإِيمَانِ. اللَّهُمَّ لَا تَحْرِمْنَا أَجْرَهُ، وَلَا تُضِلَّنَا بَعْدَهُ
"O Allah, forgive our living and our dead, those of us present and absent, our young and our old, our males and our females. O Allah, whoever You keep alive from among us, keep him alive upon Islam; and whoever You take from among us, take him upon īmān. O Allah, do not deprive us of his reward and do not let us go astray after him."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3201, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1024, Sunan Ibn Mājah 1498
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿAwf ibn Mālik (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) — for an adult
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لَهُ وَارْحَمْهُ، وَعَافِهِ وَاعْفُ عَنْهُ، وَأَكْرِمْ نُزُلَهُ، وَوَسِّعْ مُدْخَلَهُ، وَاغْسِلْهُ بِالْمَاءِ وَالثَّلْجِ وَالْبَرَدِ، وَنَقِّهِ مِنَ الْخَطَايَا كَمَا نَقَّيْتَ الثَّوْبَ الْأَبْيَضَ مِنَ الدَّنَسِ، وَأَبْدِلْهُ دَارًا خَيْرًا مِنْ دَارِهِ، وَأَهْلًا خَيْرًا مِنْ أَهْلِهِ، وَزَوْجًا خَيْرًا مِنْ زَوْجِهِ، وَأَدْخِلْهُ الْجَنَّةَ، وَأَعِذْهُ مِنْ عَذَابِ الْقَبْرِ وَعَذَابِ النَّارِ
"O Allah, forgive him and have mercy on him, give him strength and pardon him. Be generous to him and grant him a comfortable lodging; wash him with water, snow, and hail. Cleanse him of his sins as a white robe is cleansed of dirt. Give him a home better than his home, a family better than his family, a spouse better than his spouse. Admit him into Paradise and protect him from the punishment of the grave and the Fire."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 963
حديثHadithAuthentic narration of the SalafFor a child — narrated by al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī from his teachers among the Companions
اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْهُ لَنَا فَرَطًا، وَسَلَفًا، وَأَجْرًا
"O Allah, make him a forerunner for us, an advance, and a reward."
— Al-Bukhārī (taʿlīqan) — Bāb 65, Kitāb al-Janā'iz
10. Funeral Prayer — Special Cases
أحوال خاصة في صلاة الجنازة
- Child: the du'ā' is for his parents — to make him a treasure stored for them — and asking forgiveness for the parents and the wider Muslims.
- Multiple bodies: one prayer over them all is permitted. Place men nearer the imām and women further (closer to qiblah).
- Absent (ghā'ib): permissible if the deceased was not prayed over where he died — the Prophet ﷺ prayed over the Negus (al-Najāshī).
- At the grave (after burial): permissible for one who missed the prayer — the Prophet ﷺ prayed over a woman at her grave after burial.
- Missed a takbīr: join the imām, then complete the missed takbīrs and du'ās after the imām's salām.
- Woman leading women: permissible; she stands in the middle of the row.
- Non-Muslim: absolutely forbidden to pray over them or seek forgiveness for them — Allah forbade this in Sūrah al-Tawbah.
آيةQur'anوَلَا تُصَلِّ عَلَىٰ أَحَدٍ مِّنْهُم مَّاتَ أَبَدًا وَلَا تَقُمْ عَلَىٰ قَبْرِهِ ۖ إِنَّهُمْ كَفَرُوا بِاللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ وَمَاتُوا وَهُمْ فَاسِقُونَ
"And do not pray the funeral prayer over any of them who has died, ever, nor stand at his grave. Indeed, they disbelieved in Allah and His Messenger and died while they were defiantly disobedient."
— Sūrah al-Tawbah 9:84
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥAbout the Negus, the king of Abyssinia — narrated by Jābir (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
إِنَّ أَخًا لَكُمْ قَدْ مَاتَ، فَقُومُوا فَصَلُّوا عَلَيْهِ. قَالَ: فَصَفَفْنَا، فَصَلَّى عَلَيْهِ وَنَحْنُ صُفُوفٌ
"A brother of yours has died, so stand and pray over him. We formed rows and he ﷺ prayed over him while we were in rows."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1320, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 952
Burial
11. Carrying the Janāzah
حمل الجنازة
- It is Sunnah for four men to carry the bier — one at each of the four corners.
- Walk briskly but with dignity — not running, not dragging.
- It is permitted to walk in front of, behind, or beside the bier — the strongest evidence supports walking in front.
- Riding behind the bier (going to the grave) is permitted; walking is better.
- Riding before the bier is disliked.
- Women following the bier in procession is forbidden — the Prophet ﷺ prohibited it.
- Do not stand up when a funeral passes — the earlier hadith of standing was abrogated according to the practice of the Prophet ﷺ later in life.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Umm ʿAṭiyyah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā) — referring to women
نُهِينَا عَنِ اتِّبَاعِ الْجَنَائِزِ، وَلَمْ يُعْزَمْ عَلَيْنَا
"We were forbidden from following funerals, but it was not made strict upon us."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1278, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 938
12. The Burial
الدفن
Burial is a farḍ kifāyah. The grave should be deep, with a niche (laḥd) on the qiblah side preferable to a straight pit (shaqq).
- 1Carry the janāzah to the grave swiftly but with dignity.
- 2Lower the body into the grave from the foot end where possible.
- 3Place the body on its right side, facing the qiblah.
- 4Untie the kafn cords; if buried in cloth (no coffin), uncover the face slightly is permitted but not obligatory.
- 5Say upon placing him: 'Bismillāh, wa ʿalā millati Rasūlillāh.'
- 6Cover the niche with bricks, stones, or wooden boards — preventing earth from touching the body directly.
- 7Each attendee throws three handfuls of earth into the grave — this is Sunnah.
- 8Once filled, raise the grave a hand-span (about 4 inches / 10 cm) above ground level — flat on top — and mark it modestly with a single stone if needed for identification.
- 9Stand at the grave and ask for forgiveness and firmness for the deceased — for he is now being questioned.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
اللَّحْدُ لَنَا، وَالشَّقُّ لِغَيْرِنَا
"The laḥd is for us, and the shaqq is for others."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3208, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1045, Sunan Ibn Mājah 1554
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid when placing the deceased into the grave — narrated by Ibn ʿUmar (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، وَعَلَى مِلَّةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ
"In the name of Allah, and upon the religion of the Messenger of Allah."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3213, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1046
After Burial
13. After Burial — Standing & Du'ā'
بعد الدفن
The Prophet ﷺ would stand at the grave after burial and instruct the attendees to ask for forgiveness and firmness for the deceased — for the questioning has just begun.
- 1After the grave is filled, stand for a short while.
- 2Make du'ā': 'Allāhumma-ghfir lahu, Allāhumma thabbithu' — 'O Allah, forgive him; O Allah, make him firm.'
- 3Sprinkling water lightly over the grave is reported as Sunnah — to settle the earth.
- 4Marking the grave with a single stone for identification is permitted.
- It is NOT from the Sunnah to recite Sūrah al-Fātiḥah, Yā-Sīn, or any portion of the Qur'ān at the graveside immediately after burial — neither the Prophet ﷺ nor the Companions did so.
- The talqīn after burial (saying 'O so-and-so, son of so-and-so, say...') has no authentic basis from the Prophet ﷺ — it is an innovation.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿUthmān ibn ʿAffān (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) — said by the Prophet ﷺ after burying a man
اسْتَغْفِرُوا لِأَخِيكُمْ وَاسْأَلُوا لَهُ التَّثْبِيتَ، فَإِنَّهُ الْآنَ يُسْأَلُ
"Ask forgiveness for your brother and ask Allah to grant him firmness — for indeed he is now being questioned."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3221, al-Ḥākim 1372
14. What Benefits the Deceased
ما ينفع الميت
Once a person dies, his deeds end — but certain things continue to benefit him.
- Ṣadaqah jāriyah (ongoing charity): wells, masjids, schools, planted trees, beneficial books left behind.
- Beneficial knowledge he taught or wrote that people continue to act upon.
- A righteous child who supplicates for him.
- Du'ā' from any Muslim — especially asking forgiveness.
- Paying his debts on his behalf — including financial debts and debts owed to Allah (zakāh, kaffārāt).
- Hajj or ʿUmrah on his behalf — for one who could not perform it himself due to incapacity or death.
- Fasting missed obligatory days on his behalf — if he had a vow or obligatory missed fasts (e.g. Ramadan he could not make up).
- Charity given on his behalf — including freeing a slave, feeding the poor, etc.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Abū Hurayrah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
إِذَا مَاتَ الْإِنْسَانُ انْقَطَعَ عَنْهُ عَمَلُهُ إِلَّا مِنْ ثَلَاثَةٍ: إِلَّا مِنْ صَدَقَةٍ جَارِيَةٍ، أَوْ عِلْمٍ يُنْتَفَعُ بِهِ، أَوْ وَلَدٍ صَالِحٍ يَدْعُو لَهُ
"When a person dies, his deeds come to an end except for three: an ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who supplicates for him."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1631
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿĀ'ishah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā)
مَنْ مَاتَ وَعَلَيْهِ صِيَامٌ صَامَ عَنْهُ وَلِيُّهُ
"Whoever dies and has fasts owed (as a vow), his guardian should fast on his behalf."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1952, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1147
قولScholar"The gifting of the reward of Qur'an recitation to the deceased is a matter in which the scholars of Ahl us-Sunnah differ. The position closest to the evidence — and that of Imām al-Shāfiʿī and many of the early scholars — is that it does not reach the deceased, since the Prophet ﷺ did not legislate it nor did the Companions practice it. What is established by clear evidence is du'ā', ṣadaqah, Hajj, and fasting on his behalf."
— Summary of the position of Shaykh al-Islām Ibn Taymiyyah and the muḥaqqiqūn
21. Legislated Visiting of Graves
زيارة القبور
Visiting graves is recommended for men — it softens the heart and reminds of the ākhirah.
- 1Enter with the prescribed greeting: 'As-salāmu ʿalaykum dāra qawmin mu'minīn, wa innā in shā'a Allāhu bikum lāḥiqūn. Nas'alu Allāha lanā wa lakum al-ʿāfiyah.'
- 2Make du'ā' for the deceased — for forgiveness, mercy, and well-being.
- 3Reflect on death and the ākhirah; let the visit soften the heart.
- Reciting Qur'ān at the graveside is not from the Sunnah — the Prophet ﷺ never did so, nor did the Companions.
- Du'ā' for the deceased is the principal benefit they receive from the living.
- For women: scholars differ. The strongest position is that occasional visits are permitted with the conditions of modesty, no wailing, and no excessive frequency. Frequent visiting is forbidden — the Prophet ﷺ cursed 'women who frequently visit graves.'
- Travelling specifically to visit any grave (other than the three sacred mosques) is forbidden.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Buraydah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ، فَزُورُوهَا، فَإِنَّهَا تُذَكِّرُكُمُ الْآخِرَةَ
"I had forbidden you from visiting graves — but visit them, for they remind you of the Hereafter."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 977
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ when visiting Baqīʿ — narrated by Buraydah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ دَارَ قَوْمٍ مُؤْمِنِينَ، وَإِنَّا إِنْ شَاءَ اللَّهُ بِكُمْ لَاحِقُونَ، نَسْأَلُ اللَّهَ لَنَا وَلَكُمُ الْعَافِيَةَ
"Peace be upon you, abode of a believing people, and we — if Allah wills — shall join you. We ask Allah for well-being for us and for you."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 975
Special Cases
15. Children & Miscarried Infants
أحكام الأطفال والسقط
- Born alive then died: washed, named, shrouded, prayed over, and buried as an adult.
- Stillborn after 4 lunar months (120 days) — when the soul is breathed in: washed, named, shrouded, prayed over, buried.
- Miscarriage before 4 months: wrapped and buried with respect — no ghusl, no funeral prayer.
- Every Muslim child who dies before puberty enters Paradise by the bounty of Allah and is a means of intercession for his parents.
- The du'ā' for a child focuses on the parents — asking Allah to make him a treasure stored ahead for them.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿAbdullāh ibn Masʿūd (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
إِنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ يُجْمَعُ خَلْقُهُ فِي بَطْنِ أُمِّهِ أَرْبَعِينَ يَوْمًا نُطْفَةً، ثُمَّ يَكُونُ عَلَقَةً مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ، ثُمَّ يَكُونُ مُضْغَةً مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ، ثُمَّ يُرْسَلُ إِلَيْهِ الْمَلَكُ فَيَنْفُخُ فِيهِ الرُّوحَ
"Each one of you is gathered in the womb of his mother for forty days as a drop, then a clot for the like of that, then a morsel of flesh for the like of that, then the angel is sent to him and breathes the soul into him."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3208, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2643
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated al-Mughīrah ibn Shuʿbah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
وَالسِّقْطُ يُصَلَّى عَلَيْهِ، وَيُدْعَى لِوَالِدَيْهِ بِالْمَغْفِرَةِ وَالرَّحْمَةِ
"And the stillborn is prayed over, and his parents are prayed for, with forgiveness and mercy."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3180, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1031
16. Non-Muslim Deceased
موت الكافر
- It is forbidden to perform ghusl, kafn, or ṣalāt al-janāzah for a non-Muslim — and forbidden to ask forgiveness for them.
- It is permitted to wash the body for hygiene, wrap it, and hand it over to their relatives or community for burial according to their customs (without participating in their religious rites).
- If a Muslim has a non-Muslim relative die, he may follow the funeral and bury him — but does not perform Islamic rites or seek forgiveness for him.
- ʿAlī (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) buried his father Abū Ṭālib upon the instruction of the Prophet ﷺ — but did not pray over him.
آيةQur'anمَا كَانَ لِلنَّبِيِّ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَن يَسْتَغْفِرُوا لِلْمُشْرِكِينَ وَلَوْ كَانُوا أُولِي قُرْبَىٰ مِن بَعْدِ مَا تَبَيَّنَ لَهُمْ أَنَّهُمْ أَصْحَابُ الْجَحِيمِ
"It is not for the Prophet and those who have believed to ask forgiveness for the polytheists, even if they were relatives, after it has become clear to them that they are companions of Hellfire."
— Sūrah al-Tawbah 9:113
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ to ʿAlī (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) when his father Abū Ṭālib died
اذْهَبْ فَوَارِهِ
"Go and bury him."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3214, Sunan al-Nasā'ī 2006
17. Suicide & Major Sinners
المنتحر وأهل الكبائر
- A Muslim who commits suicide is still a Muslim — he is washed, shrouded, and buried in the Muslim graveyard.
- The imām or scholar of the community may abstain from praying over him as a deterrent — but the rest of the people pray over him so he is not denied the funeral prayer entirely.
- Likewise for someone who died committing a major sin (e.g. drunkard, drug overdose) — the funeral prayer is not denied.
- His final reckoning is with Allah — we leave his affair to Him, neither declaring him in Paradise nor in Hell.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Jābir ibn Samurah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
أُتِيَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ بِرَجُلٍ قَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ بِمَشَاقِصَ، فَلَمْ يُصَلِّ عَلَيْهِ
"A man who had killed himself with a broad iron arrowhead was brought to the Prophet ﷺ, and he did not pray over him."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 978
18. Modern-Day Issues
مسائل معاصرة
- Autopsy: permitted only when legally required or when there is a clear benefit (criminal investigation, medical necessity). Avoided whenever possible — the body of a Muslim is honoured.
- Organ donation after death: scholars differ; the more cautious view of the major scholars upon the manhaj of the Salaf (Ibn Bāz, Ibn ʿUthaymīn) is to avoid it, as the body is to be returned to its Lord intact.
- Cremation: absolutely forbidden. The body must be buried in the earth.
- Embalming and cosmetic preparation: discouraged unless legally required for repatriation; minimum intervention is best.
- Repatriation to another country: permitted if there is a benefit (e.g. burial near family), but burying where one died is the Sunnah and avoids delay.
- Coffins: the Sunnah is burial in cloth directly into the earth. Where law requires a coffin, it is permitted as a necessity.
- Funeral homes: permissible to use their facilities for washing, shrouding, and prayer — provided no innovations are practiced.
- Photography of the deceased: strongly disliked or forbidden — exposing the dead is against their honour and against the Sunnah of concealing what the washer sees.
- Live-streaming funerals: avoid; turns a moment of reflection into a spectacle.
19. Etiquettes for Attendees
آداب المشيعين
- Dress modestly and cleanly — black is not a requirement.
- Maintain silence during the procession; do not converse loudly.
- Do not raise the voice with dhikr in unison while carrying the bier — this was not the practice of the Companions.
- Phones on silent. No photography.
- Hasten to the masjid for the prayer; remain until burial if possible — for the two qīrāṭs.
- After the prayer, do not crowd the family — offer brief condolences and depart.
- Do not eat at the funeral home or accept hospitality from the bereaved family — bring food TO them instead.
حديثHadithḤasanSaid by the Prophet ﷺ when news of Jaʿfar's martyrdom reached him — narrated by ʿAbdullāh ibn Jaʿfar (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
اصْنَعُوا لِآلِ جَعْفَرٍ طَعَامًا، فَإِنَّهُ قَدْ أَتَاهُمْ مَا يَشْغَلُهُمْ
"Make food for the family of Jaʿfar, for there has come to them what occupies them."
— Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3132, Sunan al-Tirmidhī 998
20. Ta'ziyah & Mourning
التعزية والإحداد
Consoling the bereaved is a Sunnah. Mourning has fixed Sharʿī limits.
- Recommended phrase: 'Inna lillāhi mā akhadha wa lahu mā aʿṭā, wa kullu shay'in ʿindahu bi-ajalin musammā — fal-taṣbir wal-taḥtasib.'
- Or simply: 'May Allah make great your reward, beautify your patience, and forgive your deceased.'
- Visit briefly. Do not encourage formal gatherings — the Companions considered gathering at the family of the deceased and serving food after burial to be a form of wailing.
- Mourning period (iḥdād): for a widow — 4 months and 10 days (the ʿiddah). For any other family death — 3 days maximum.
- A widow during ʿiddah remains in her marital home, avoids perfume, jewellery, kohl, and decorative clothing, and does not entertain marriage proposals.
- Men do not have a prescribed mourning period beyond grieving naturally.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥSaid by the Prophet ﷺ to one of his daughters when her son was dying — narrated by Usāmah ibn Zayd (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhumā)
إِنَّ لِلَّهِ مَا أَخَذَ، وَلَهُ مَا أَعْطَى، وَكُلُّ شَيْءٍ عِنْدَهُ بِأَجَلٍ مُسَمًّى، فَلْتَصْبِرْ وَلْتَحْتَسِبْ
"Indeed, what Allah takes is His, and what He gives is His, and everything with Him has a fixed term — so let her be patient and seek reward."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1284, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 923
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Umm ʿAṭiyyah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā)
لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تُحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ، إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا
"It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for any deceased person more than three days — except for a husband, for whom it is four months and ten days."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1280, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 938
Innovations to Avoid
22. Prohibited Practices at Graves
المنكرات عند القبور
- Building structures, domes, or rooms over graves — the Prophet ﷺ forbade this.
- Plastering, whitewashing, or decorating graves.
- Praying toward graves or in graveyards (except the funeral prayer itself).
- Calling upon the deceased, asking them for help, or seeking their intercession — this is shirk akbar.
- Sitting on graves or walking over them.
- Lighting lamps, candles, or incense over graves.
- Making graves into ʿīds — annual visits with ceremonies.
- Sacrificing animals at or for graves.
- Travelling specifically to visit any grave other than the three sacred mosques (Makkah, Madinah, Aqsa).
- Wailing, eulogising the dead with exaggeration, hiring professional mourners.
- Inscribing the Qur'an or names of Allah on gravestones.
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿĀ'ishah and Ibn ʿAbbās (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhum)
لَعَنَ اللَّهُ الْيَهُودَ وَالنَّصَارَى، اتَّخَذُوا قُبُورَ أَنْبِيَائِهِمْ مَسَاجِدَ
"May Allah curse the Jews and the Christians — they took the graves of their prophets as places of worship."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1330, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 531
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Jundub ibn ʿAbdillāh (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
أَلَا وَإِنَّ مَنْ كَانَ قَبْلَكُمْ كَانُوا يَتَّخِذُونَ قُبُورَ أَنْبِيَائِهِمْ وَصَالِحِيهِمْ مَسَاجِدَ، أَلَا فَلَا تَتَّخِذُوا الْقُبُورَ مَسَاجِدَ، إِنِّي أَنْهَاكُمْ عَنْ ذَلِكَ
"Indeed those who came before you used to take the graves of their prophets and the righteous as places of worship. Do not take the graves as places of worship — I forbid you from that."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 532
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated Jābir (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu)
نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَنْ يُجَصَّصَ الْقَبْرُ، وَأَنْ يُقْعَدَ عَلَيْهِ، وَأَنْ يُبْنَى عَلَيْهِ
"The Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade plastering the grave, sitting on it, or building over it."
— Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 970
23. Common Innovations to Avoid
البدع الشائعة في الجنائز
These practices have spread widely but have no basis in the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ or the practice of the Companions.
- Memorial gatherings on the 3rd, 7th, 40th day, or annually (qul, chāliswan, barsi) — the Companions explicitly considered this from the wailing of jāhiliyyah.
- Eating food provided by the bereaved family after burial — the Sunnah is to bring food TO them, not the reverse.
- Hiring professional reciters or qāri' to recite Qur'an for the deceased.
- Loudspeaker recitation of the Qur'an at the burial or in the funeral procession.
- Talqīn after burial — addressing the dead with prompts ('O so-and-so, son of so-and-so, say...') — has no authentic basis from the Prophet ﷺ.
- Wreaths, flowers, or decorations at the grave.
- Inscriptions on gravestones beyond a simple name marker.
- Standing in silence as a mourning custom (a Western practice; not from Islam).
- Wearing black for mourning as a religious ritual.
- Black armbands or special mourning attire.
- Anniversary visits to the grave with ceremonies.
- Distributing sweets or food at the grave.
- Photographing or filming the deceased or burial.
- Group dhikr in unison at the graveside.
أثرAtharṢaḥīḥNarrated Jarīr ibn ʿAbdillāh al-Bajalī (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhu) — referring to the practice of the Companions
كُنَّا نَعُدُّ الِاجْتِمَاعَ إِلَى أَهْلِ الْمَيِّتِ وَصَنْعَةَ الطَّعَامِ بَعْدَ دَفْنِهِ مِنَ النِّيَاحَةِ
"We used to count gathering at the family of the deceased and preparing food after his burial as a form of wailing (niyāḥah)."
— Sunan Ibn Mājah 1612, Musnad Aḥmad 6905
حديثHadithṢaḥīḥNarrated ʿĀ'ishah (raḍiyallāhu ʿanhā)
مَنْ أَحْدَثَ فِي أَمْرِنَا هَذَا مَا لَيْسَ مِنْهُ فَهُوَ رَدٌّ
"Whoever introduces into this matter of ours something that is not from it, it is rejected."
— Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 2697, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1718
Reference
24. Glossary of Key Terms
مصطلحات
Janāzah
جنازة
The funeral; also refers to the deceased and the bier.
Mayyit
ميّت
The deceased person.
Ghusl
غسل
The ritual washing of the deceased.
Kafn
كفن
The shroud — clean white cloths in which the body is wrapped.
Ṣalāt al-Janāzah
صلاة الجنازة
The funeral prayer — four takbīrs, no rukūʿ or sujūd.
Laḥd
لحد
A side niche cut into the qiblah-facing wall of the grave.
Shaqq
شقّ
A straight central pit in the grave (less preferred than laḥd).
Talqīn
تلقين
Prompting the dying person to say 'Lā ilāha illa Allāh' (Sunnah). Talqīn after burial is an innovation.
Taʿziyah
تعزية
Offering condolences to the bereaved.
Iḥdād
إحداد
The mourning period — 3 days for relatives, 4 months and 10 days for a widow.
Waṣiyyah
وصيّة
The will or bequest — limited to one-third of the estate.
Ṣadaqah Jāriyah
صدقة جارية
Ongoing charity that continues to benefit the deceased.
Shahīd
شهيد
Martyr. The shahīd of the battlefield is not washed; other types of shuhadā' (drowning, plague, fire, etc.) are washed and prayed over.
Niyāḥah
نياحة
Wailing — loud lamentation forbidden in Islam.
Farḍ Kifāyah
فرض كفاية
A collective obligation — if some Muslims fulfil it, the obligation is lifted from the rest.
ʿIddah
عدّة
The waiting period of a widow — 4 months and 10 days.
Athar
أثر
A statement or action narrated from a Companion or one of the Salaf.
25. Quick Checklist
قائمة مختصرة
A practical step-by-step for grieving families — from the moment of death through the days following burial.
Immediately at Death
- Close the eyes and tie the jaw.
- Cover the body with a clean sheet.
- Make du'ā' for the deceased.
- Notify family, the local imām, and the masjid.
- Begin arranging ghusl, kafn, and burial — hasten.
Within the Same Day
- Locate the will (waṣiyyah) and identify debts.
- Perform ghusl (or arrange for it at a funeral home / masjid washing room).
- Shroud the body in kafn.
- Transport to the masjid for ṣalāt al-janāzah.
- Pray ṣalāt al-janāzah after one of the five daily prayers (or at any time outside the prohibited times).
- Proceed to the graveyard and bury — placing the body on its right side facing qiblah.
- Stand at the grave, ask for forgiveness and firmness.
First Three Days
- Family receives condolences quietly.
- Friends and community bring food TO the bereaved.
- No formal gatherings; no special meals served by the family.
- Make abundant du'ā' for the deceased.
- Begin paying outstanding debts.
Ongoing
- Execute the will (within the 1/3 limit, to non-heirs only).
- Distribute inheritance per the Qur'an after debts and bequests.
- Give ṣadaqah jāriyah on his behalf.
- Perform Hajj/ʿUmrah on his behalf if he was unable.
- Make up missed obligatory fasts on his behalf if applicable.
- Continue du'ā' for him for the rest of your life.
- Visit the grave occasionally to make du'ā' and remember the ākhirah.